Over the weekend, I got engaged.
It has been a crazy whirlwind so far and I am finally feeling the weight of planning such an important life event.
I have been a bridesmaid 5 times already (it will be 6 in July), so I am no stranger to weddings.
For my own wedding, I am excited to incorporate my eco-friendly lifestyle and chronicle all of it here for you.
However, I do feel that the wedding industry has gotten a little bit out of control (apologies to anyone who has opposite views of me on this topic).
For instance, the perceived need for all of these things:
- engagement photos
- engagement parties
- wedding planners
- save the dates
- photo booths
- over the top centerpieces and flowers that get thrown out the next day
- favors no one takes home
- wedding hashtags #NO
- matching bridal party shirts you will never wear again
- “future Mrs. ____” apparel or items you will never wear after getting married
These are not necessities to getting married. Social media (specifically Pinterest) has lead us to believe we need all of these things for a successful and Pinterest-worthy wedding.
Last time I checked, the most important part is the act of getting married.
Going forward with wedding planning, this is what I want:
- this to be easy
- this to be simple
- to avoid unnecessary costs
- create the least amount of waste as possible
- do what I can do myself
- to use local services and goods
- to use friend’s and family as much as possible
I want my wedding to be an event put together by people who are important to me.
Obviously, I understand as I go through this process, I may change my mind about everything. For now, though, this is my initial stance.
How do you feel about weddings these days? Do you think they can be quite wasteful?